As far as I know adobe doesn't support android versions below 4.0 anymore so you can't get the flash player if your phone is not on 4.0. Are you sure you have it?
Ah, it seems like there are old archived versions of the flash player on the adobe page, but it says they are for testing purposes only, so, yeah, probably don't work.
I have the same problem, rocking a huawai boulder. ^^